The Experts Say - Seniors & Aging

 

Smart Ageing

Article contributed by:

Raffles Medical Group

 


 

Diet & Self Care

Aspirations

 


 

Quiz: How Well are You Ageing?

Are you ageing smartly?  How well are you ageing?  Take this quiz to find out.
 

Physical Well-being


I get less than 30 minutes of physical activity on most days.

True / False

I had a fall or sustained an injury in the last three months.

True/  False

I feel tired most of the time.

True / False

I feel bored most of the time and have little social activities.

True / False

Emotional Well-being


I have not kept in touch with close friends in the last two weeks.

True / False

I do not know who I can share my problems with.

True / False

I feel alone/sad/depressed/moody.

True / False

I flared up at someone earlier this week and am regretting it.

True / False

Diet & Self Care


My intake of meats is much higher than my greens. 

True / False

I eat out more than five times each week. 

True / False

My family and friends have commented about my body odour.

True / False

I have not seen my doctor for my annual check up. 

True / False

Aspiration


My day-to-day concerns take up most of my time. I do not have time to guide and care for others.

True / False

I haven’t had time to pursue my passions for a long while.

True / False

I am too old to have dreams and aspirations.

True / False

I have very little savings and should a medical need arise, I am financially dependent on my children.

True / False

 
How you scored

If you answer True to any of the statements in the category above.  Read on about how you can improve your quality of life with tips from our panels of experts.


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Physical Well-being

Exercise

The importance of regular exercise cannot be stressed further. Studies have shown that regular exercise benefits both mental and cardiovascular health.

 

“Continuous aerobic exercises (e.g. cycling, swimming and brisk walking) are suitable for older people,” said Dr Teo Sek Khee, a Geriatrician, and Consultant at Raffles Internal Medicine Centre. “Special strength building exercises will also help if you have particular problems such as spine or knee pains.”
 
Risk Of Falling

Falls, especially in the elderly, usually indicates a health problem. According to Dr Teo, falls in the elderly can be due to multiple factors.
 
The factors may be environmental (e.g. slippery floor, poor lighting and cluttered furniture) or they may be intrinsic to the patient (e.g. poor vision, poor balance, arthritis, weak muscles and neurological conditions).  It may also be related to the drugs that the elderly is consuming such as sleeping tablets, anti-hypertension medications, anti-depressants or over the counter medicines. 

 

An approach to reducing falls would involve a consultation with the doctor to review all the medications that the patient is taking (including over the counter medications) and performing thorough examination.  Some laboratory tests may be necessary to rule out anaemia or infections.
 
State Of Mind

Lethargy is a common complaint amongst older people.  However, do not take it too lightly as it may be an indication of certain health problems.  Dr Teo said that the root cause could be stress, depression, anaemia, hormonal imbalance or lack of exercises. 

 

Therefore, if you are constantly feeling tired, you should take the time to evaluate your lifestyle and diet. “Ensure that you have enough rest and fresh food. If these do not make you feel better, you should consult a doctor,” advised Dr Teo
 
Social Life

Boredom and social seclusion can be bad for mental health as studies have shown that social interaction and activities prevents depression and dementia. 

 

The lack of social activities may cause one to fall into a state of boredom.  This can gradually escalate into bigger health issues.  Therefore, keep yourself active socially!  Widen your circle of friends and indulge in a hobby or interest. It is never too late to pick up a past-time.

 

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Emotional Well-being

Relationships

Friendships are an important component in any person’s life.  You may want to explore what your definitions and requirements of a “close” friend are.  According to Mr Danny Ng, a counsellor at Raffles Counselling Centre, meaningful relationships do not necessarily need constant and active communication.  “Some of the “best friends” that we have often come from significant interactions and experiences from our past.  As we move along life’s journey, our groups of friends will change according to the social settings that we are placed into.”
 
Confidante

“Sharing one’s inner feelings is one of the more difficult things to do in life,” said Mr Ng.  “Many people find it difficult to express their true inner feelings to others.  This is normal and will need time and positive encounters to nurture into one’s social interactions.”
 
Three key-factors must be present for one to “bare their soul”.  The first is obviously the social environment that the person may be placed into or external viability.  We inevitably feel more comfortable with some people than with others.
 
The second is the content of information that is desired to be disclosed, or content vulnerability.  Obviously, the more personal and intimate the details, the less likely one will be able to divulge this openly and the external viability will also be greatly reduced.
 
The last factor is that of the personality traits of the desired communicator. For instance, if the person is highly introverted and shy, it would be more difficult for this person to share his/her feelings and thoughts.
 
Hence, external viability, content vulnerability and personality traits interact together in the successful transmission of personal sharing of our intimate feelings.
 
Depression

The worst thing that can happen to you is getting more depressed over your current depressed state thereby spiraling yourself into a state of helplessness.  Try to think happy or positive thoughts.  Avoid withdrawing from the community and learn to interact and reach out to others even though you may not feel like it.  If there is a specific issue or problem that may have triggered this depression, get help to deal with this problem.
 
Finally, if you find it too difficult to “pull” yourself out of this depressed state, you should seek professional help and assessment by a psychologist or psychiatrist.  Depression is a widely used term with a great degree of understanding and interpretation.  The degree and prevalence of depression is more important and we need to be able to differentiate the “type” of depression one is expressing.
 
Firstly, we need to be able to manage the severity of the depression. Secondly, we need to be able to identify if there are natural triggers for the depression. Thirdly, we also need to ascertain the length of time one has felt depressed. Finally, we will need to measure how incapacitating the state of depression is to one’s normal daily function and routine.
 
Anger

Anger is another area that can ruin your day and relationships.  However, you can have better control over it.  According to Mr Ng, you can play back the incident(s) which caused you to lose your cool.  Try to identify “themes’ that caused you to feel tense and angry.  If you can identify these trigger points, you may be able to get to the root of your own internal struggles that may need to be resolved.
 
This statement acknowledges two components.  One that the person did lose control of emotions and had negatively expressed it in the form of anger. The second more important indication here is the acknowledgement and insights that is expressed by his/her regret.  This sense of remorse is good and necessary for change in behaviour.

 

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Diet & Self Care

Dietary Intake

Healthy eating is important throughout our life not only when we become older or have any medical condition that warrants dietary modification! However, many of us do not pay attention to our health until we reach middle age and beyond. 

 

As we grow older, your body becomes less forgiving, and we may need to make more of an effort to eat well and stay fit. Vegetables are important sources of vitamins and minerals.  Vegetables also provide fibre, an important nutrient for a good digestive system.
 
“One must include at least two to three servings of vegetables per day. Meat is an important source of protein in the diet, however, including fatty meat on a regular basis may lead to weight gain and increased blood lipids.  One needs to include two to three serves of protein per day,” said Nehal Kamdor, a dietician at Raffles Internal Medicine Centre.
 
It is also important to include at least one serving of vegetable protein like tahu/tofu/ tempeh/beans/lentils per day to reduce the fat content of the diet. Fish, especially oily fish like tuna, mackeral, salmon etc is a healthy alternative to red meat. It also contains omega 3 which protects the heart.
 
Planning Your Meals

As we age, there is an increasing need to watch our diets more closely than before. Our diet may be restricted due to our health conditions.  As an example, people who have high blood pressure should not be indulging in foods that are high in salt.  The Health Promotion Board recommends lowering our salt intake to less than one teaspoon per day.  Foods from resturants and hawker centres are generally higher in salt.

 

• One serving of vegetables = 3/4 cup of cooked vegetables

• One serving of protein = 1 palm sized piece of lean meat/fish or chicken

 

"While it is more convenient to eat out, it is harder for you to watch your diet.  This is because we have more control in the use of ingredients when we cook ourselves.  You are also more likely to be tempted by food you should not be eating when you eat out due to the wide variety available," said Ms Kamdar.

 

It is thus important for you to plan your meal.  "Buying ingredients that make up a healthy meal will ensure that you stick to your diet plans.  Try not to eat out more than twice a week and always choose a resturant/food centre where you can request for less salt to be added!  If you have to eat out, you need to practise discipline and not be tempted into eating something that you know you should be  abstaining from," Ms Kamdar advised.  It is also important to learn to read the food labels so that when you are shopping at the supermarket you will be better at looking out for hidden sources of salt!

 

Personal Hygiene

Is it really true that the elderly tend to have a kind of body odour due to their age?  According to Dr Teo, the answer is a firm 'No'.

 

"Body odour does not have a special predilection for the elderly.  It arises due to apocrine secretions from certain glands in the arm pits," said Dr Tea.

 

Since age is not a factor, do something about the problem if you have it.  As with people of all ages, regular body hygiene will help to reduce body odour.  Deodorants may also mask the problem.
 

Annual Medical Check-up

Many of us put off visiting a doctor till we exhibit symptoms of being ill. However, a regular check-up with the doctor is advisable once you are in your late 40’s.  This is largely because silent diseases such as hypertension and hypercholsterolaemia tend to be present at this time. 

 

You should also go for health screening every year.  Regular health-screening and medical check-ups help in early detection and management of illnesses.  Timely intervention in the form of treatment can save your life!
 

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Aspirations

Mentoring

The life lessons you have gained over the years are valuable.  By pouring your experience into a younger person’s life, you can make an impact to the next generation and do things you were not able to accomplish in your own life through another.

 

To allow you to do so, Mr Ng said, “it will be good to take stock of your own life and “weed” out what is necessary and important from your responsibilities and routine.  Time-management is easily understood but practically, difficult to enforce.  Try to find what may be fulfilling for you and see if your responsibilities and constraints allow you to pursue meaningful goals such as mentoring.”

 

The balance between work, family, recreation, personal solitude, rest and exercise is very difficult to achieve.  Some people may not even have the opportunity to consider some of these aspects as work and/or family may dominate most, if not all, their time and resources.
 
Hobby

Just like mentoring, having a hobby helps you build depth in character.  It could be something simple, e.g. sports or cooking. You can learn life skills through these activities.  If you are struggling with this, Mr Ng has this advice for you.  “Ask yourself: WHY? Do you have a choice?  If so, then what kind of “trade-offs” are you willing to make for this to be possible.  If you feel that you do not have much of a choice, then try to find ways to cope with the pressures that you are facing.”
 
Dreams

If you think age would rob you of your dreams and aspirations, you will never be able to achieve them.  Remember - one is NEVER too old to have dreams and aspirations!

 

“However, you need to temper your aspirations with some down-to-earth reality checks.”  Said Mr Ng, “for instance desiring to train for the Olympic games and coming out first in the 100m race is likely to be close to impossible as we age.”   Set realistic expectations and goals and learn to be content with what we have and who we are, this is a very important outlook for healthy emotional and psychological ageing.
 
Health financing

As one age, health problems become more of a reality.  However, you can have enough to pay for your healthcare needs.  Mr Steven Tan, Sales and Marketing Manager, International Medical Insurers has this to share with those who are worried about healthcare financing in their golden year:  A “Hospitalisation shield plan is a must since you have little savings to cover your medical expenses.  The premium could be paid from your children’s Medisave account.  By getting an additional rider, any deductible and co-insurance of the hospitalisation bills could also be covered.  In this way, you do not have to worry should a medical need arise.”
 

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Article contributed by:
Raffles Medical Group

Dated: June 2011

 

Raffles Medical Group is a leading medical group and the largest private group practice in Singapore.  As a fully integrated healthcare organisation, the Group owns and operates a network of family medicine clinics, a tertiary care private hospital, insurance services and a consumer healthcare division.  Patients of the Group enjoy a continuum of care, from having their most basic healthcare needs met through the Group’s islandwide network of Raffles Medical clinics, to specialist and tertiary care at Raffles Hospital.

 

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